My friend Liz tagged me to a video post on Facebook and all she said was “someone you may want to consider interviewing” – I watched the video and she was right – I definitely wanted to interview her. Check out the video here –
So I message Shantelle, introduced myself, told her some of the things that I do and asked her if she would let me interview her – thankfully Shantelle said yes. Shantelle has a very interesting story, as you will soon discover. Her strength and determination to help herself and others around her is outstanding.
Shantelle completed this a few months ago, since then she has won the IBJJF World Championships, and received her purple belt. She is an impressive individual not only for women BJJ but also for everything that she does in her Aborigine community.
The exact moment I realised I was a World Champion. Dreams really can come true, with the courage to dream, being prepared to work hard with mindful and purposeful intent, your actions are with love, integrity, and be resilient because there are always bumps in the road. Anything is possible, if you believe, take a deep breath and take the first step!!!
How many years have you been doing BJJ – how old were you when you started BJJ and why did you start?
I first came into contact with BJJ when I was 20 because a friend introduced me to the system. I began training BJJ on and off from the age of 21 but nothing serious. I began seriously training in 2010 because I developed Post-Natal Depression after the birth of my twins in 2009, BJJ became a form of physical therapy and my mental health plan.
BJJ saved my life and has also given me the life I have now.
How did you find BJJ helped you with dealing with depression?
I developed post-natal depression after the birth of my twins in 2009, I was not officially diagnosed until late 2010. As a result of past trauma and life events I did not want to take medication so I needed something else to treat myself. In October 2010 I started training BJJ as a form of physical and mental therapy to treat my PND. BJJ helped me with this because it is a very physically engaging sport and is also mentally engaging and after a session I had nothing left to give to the PND. It helped me redirect the negative energy of my illness.
It has been a complete treatment for me because it helps me in all aspects of my life and the lessons I have learnt about myself on and off the mats have lead me down a journey of acknowledgement, acceptance and finally healing.
What gym do you train at?
Maromba Academy Australia/Absolute MMA
What other sporting background do you have?
I have played Basketball as a teenager, I also trained in Renshinkan Karate (kyokushin), boxing and my dominant sports are BJJ and Wrestling and Coreeda Wrestling (Aboriginal Wrestling).
Coreeda wrestling is traditional Aboriginal wrestling and was used as a way to condition young warriors, manage conflict and for physical and mental health.
When did you receive your blue belt, how did you feel when you got it?
I received my blue belt in 2013 and I felt, humbled, grateful, accomplished and so ready for the next stage of this life long journey that BJJ has become.
What does your training schedule look like? Does this include strength training and are you particular with your nutrition?
I currently train up to four hours a day that split over two sessions, x6 days a week. I do strength and conditioning training x5 days per week and yes I am very particular about my nutrition and this is becoming more of a priority as a I get older and more serious about my training and competing.
You took some time off training to have a family, how was it coming back?
I did not train during my pregnancies and from the birth of my first daughter in 2006 to the twins’ birth in 2009 I did not train much at all. I may have trained maybe once a week every now and again. Coming back to training and BJJ helped me find myself and gain my life back.
You have a young family, you also work and volunteer your time – how do you juggle it all?
I have found my life purpose and all that I do in being a mother, family, warrior, elite athlete, support worker, Kiilalaana program coordinator, mentor, volunteer and life warrior they all work together in this purpose.
To be honest I don’t think about it much I just do it.
Being an Aborigine you must a be a huge inspiration to your people, can you share some of your heritage/background?
I am a Barkindji/Anglo Saxon woman and my family come from along the Murray River, and I grew up in Dareton, NSW. I am very proud of both of my heritages and I am the second eldest of 17 children so I have a big mob. I have always been a fighter and I grew up fighting for what I believe in. Being the Barkindji Warrior is my responsibility to carry on the work of my ancestors and is my life purpose to work every day to become the Barkindji Warrior.
Do you enjoy competing and how do you deal with the pressure?
I love the battle of competing and my experiences of pressure are constantly changing the more I compete and the new levels of competition that I attempt. When I first started I was like everyone else nervous and felt every little aspect of pressure, then when I started winning a lot and also continued this into my blue belt for a little while it became about staying at the top and to continue to win.
Now that has changed for me, competing is so much more than winning or a medal. Competing is now as much about the battle against myself as the opponent. By this I mean, how do I handle pressure, the battle of competition? The only difference between competition and training is the environment change, it is about the battle and have I improved since the last battle as a person, competitor and fighter. I want to push my boundaries in all areas of my life and competing in BJJ is one of them. I also love the friendships and relationships I have developed with other women that compete in BJJ. I wish more women competed and I hope by sharing my story and perspective on competing that it may encourage others to try competing.
What are the highs and lows of BJJ for you?
The greatest lows of BJJ have been when I have been injured and unable to train at all, and this becomes a challenge when it is a way of life. Also when the focus becomes too much on preparing for a comp or about reaching the next goal. When I lose sight of what is important, that it is about the journey and the relationships that I make in BJJ I become anxious and it becomes less of a safe place. I am getting better and remembering my purpose and why for BJJ and this helps.
The greatest highs are that BJJ is a part of my life, it is a lifetime journey, my team is my family and my whole family are involved in BJJ. The challenge and growth that I gain daily from training and competing in BJJ is also a high.
You must have seen many people come and go – what keeps you going?
It is a way of life.
What advice would you give other women who were thinking about starting BJJ or who have just started?
I would say give it a try and see if it is right for you, and try a few different clubs to find a culture that supports women and new people into the sport. Trust your instincts and be upfront with your training partners that you are new to the sport. I used to try and match the guys on strength (as I am a bigger female and I lift weights) but now I am honest with my training partners (male and female) and let them know how I am going to roll in that roll. By this I mean for example if it is a new person I will lets say be technical and flow role, until I get a feel for how they role and if they are a safe training partner. If they are not I will speak to them and then if I feel unsafe and they do not improve I will not roll with that person. My personally safety always comes first always. If I am getting ready for a comp I always check if my partner is ok with us rolling comp mode, which is more intense, then a general training roll.
Enjoy the journey because BJJ can give you so much if you allow it.
In your opinion what do you believe it takes to be successful at BJJ?
To me BJJ is such a personal thing and for you to be successful at BJJ you have to decide what role it plays in your life. For me, BJJ is a lifestyle and it is also going to be a part of the work I do in the future with women’s and youth programs so it is important for me to be constantly evolving and growing in the sport.
Who inspires you?
My family inspire me every day with their constant acceptance and encouragement of the journey I am taking them on and the goals I have set for myself. My grandmother with her strength, life journey and accomplishments inspires me to become the best of myself and to never settle. My coach Thiago inspires me with his willingness to create a family of our team, never allowing me to settle or become complacent and how he also is there for us as a friend and coach. He is always training and competing as well as coaching and he puts himself out there and I admire that. My training partners and teammates inspire me with their friendship, help and constant support.
What personal lessons have you learnt about yourself since doing BJJ?
BJJ has helped me to discover my life’s purpose and also shown me the best and worst of who I am as a person both on and off the mats. My jiu jitsu reflects my life and who I am as a person. The biggest lessons it has taught me is that I am stronger then I think, I love to help people, I am also to impatient and I do not take enough time to visualise or reflect on things before I make a move or make the next step.
Where do you see yourself in 5 years time?
In 5 years time I see myself as;
- The best mother to my children possible and role model to others I can be.
- a world champion in BJJ
- competing internationally in wrestling
- a brown belt
- Kiilalaana Program Coordinator – using BJJ, Wrestling and my experiences to run Women’s and Youth empowerment programs.
- A trauma specialist working with people who have been affected by trauma.
- The Barkindji Warrior and the best version I can become on this journey.
Is there anyone you would like to thank?
There are many I would like to thank on this journey and for those that support me, believe in me thank you for everything.
Thank you to my family for the love and support you show me everyday, you inspire me to push higher then I ever thought possible. I love you xox
To my coaches Thiago, Chris and Mac for all your support, guidance and time I would not be the fighter or person I am today without you, Teresa for keeping me patched up, my BJJ and wrestling family for everything on and off the mats, and a special mention to Apryl and Kim for being there in more ways then one.
Thank you to my sponsors for believing, investing and supporting my dreams.
The Fight Factory
Kapai Puku
Fitline Personal Training
Optimum Muscular Health
Ways that you can follow Shantelle
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